学习一下菜单，可能自己是菜鸟，怎么样，情商都不是很高。看了以后，觉得蛮有用。比如，面对好吃的，想要表达一下，就说“这个一级好吃！”。
对于自己想要的，不要说出自己的真实想法，而是要揣摩对方的想法，使自己的话符合对方的利益，让对方做出一个选择来达到自己的目标。例如，自己作为餐厅服务员，有小孩在餐厅里乱跑，希望孩子的妈妈管管孩子，说“上菜比较忙，孩子在餐厅玩耍，可能会烫伤孩子”，孩子的妈妈自然会考虑让孩子不要乱跑。
感觉有用。
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